I'll reveal it in just a few moments. But I'll tell you this... growing up is hard to do and children want you to learn this secret because it makes growing up much easier for them.
Just as you want to be a successful mom or dad, your children want to be successful too. Successful at being a kid, successful at growing up. They really do. But what do they know? After all, they're the new kids on the block to this adventure called life.
"What is life all about and what do I need to know to navigate it successfully?"
Problem is, they don't have the answers, and nobody is telling them, and they don't know what questions to ask. What if you had just started a new job and found yourself in that predicament? So you ask, "What am I supposed to do?" and everyone shrugs, "Just walk around, you'll figure it out..."
What would you do? Guess? Take a few stabs in the dark? Why not? Well, children do the same thing, they guess and start doing what comes "naturally." In other words, whatever they feel like doing. After all, if it comes natural, and feels good, it's gotta be okay. Right?
Childish reasoning, but if it becomes their internal guideline it simply leads to a lot of bad behavior and the "my way is better than your way" attitude, and unfortunately, a lot of yelling and scolding.
Teaching them the overriding principles of life that we all live by, and the matching life skills that make it work, sheds light...Read More detail